Green Alice
Russian Federation
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To my mind biological "right time for marriage" and social one do not coincide nowadays, causing problems and questions, sometimes regrets. My "right time" for marriage and having first kid was at 18. At that times I was staring at any kid in sight. I really wanted to be a mom (and would probably have got married, if someone had proposed :D ). But socially I couldn't afford having a child, cos it was my second year at school, I has no profession, no job, and I totally depended on my parents. Those days are gone and now I don't even turn my head, when a kid is passing by. I have no desire for having kids, but only understanding, that it may get too late… The social "right time" will come for me in a few years, when I get enough experience in my field and enter a good job. I will be close to 30 by that time. That is my understanding of "the right time", but I should mention that above all, marriage should be based on love, children should grow up in love, which is impossible without "the right person". It takes time (luck, chance) to find one.
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